Feb 22, 2010

Hi and Goodbye!

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Warning : Emo Post ahead !!!

Something Strikes My Mind lately!
Something that touches our lives as we grow up and experience ...
Now i m perfectly understand a plain fact of human relationships :
People Come People Go, and thats life!!!
One day they're here and the next day they're gone, leaving you clueless where they are. Not even a goodbye was expressed.

I m flashback-ing of all the people who have wandered away from me and then I wonder, will there ever be a time when they might reconnect? Not just for a ‘blast from the past,’ but a real reconnection, a rejoining, a resumption of the friendship routine as if the split had never happened. Probably not, but it has happened, and I dwell in hope that it might happen again.

The greatest difficulty lies in the uncertainty that accompanies any relationship. There are no guarantees. Even with those closest to our hearts, we have no assurance that they will be there beside us tomorrow or next month or next year. There's always a very real fear hidden in the uncertainties.

It is that fear that reminds us of how precious our relationships are, of the importance of showing our love to those closest to our hearts, and the value those relationships have for us.

There was a time when I met someone whom I thought could potentially be one of those "permanent" people, but I'll choose to ignore, avoid and run away. Hoping that I won't be hurt again and again. Maybe as the years have passed and I've learned tiny slivers of wisdom, I've become more protective of my heart. I am no longer feel the need to immediately bare all my hidden layers. Perhaps previous heartache has led me to this place. Or perhaps it is just a growing patience and the faith that relationships will lead wherever they are meant to go. It is difficult not knowing, and yet I am surprised to realize that my fear with these uncertainties is minimal.

I'm overwhelmed and melt down…

- The End -

1 comment:

Louise Xin said...

people come and go, but that's show how we are at different age, our mind and thought.
After some time, recall the old time,u'll see the precious part of it . I THINK. :D
nice day!